The need for respect is greater than the need for guidance.

The need for respect is greater than the need for guidance.

 Before she learned to take something under her control, she was asked to share, to be a partner. When she was barely five years old, she was taught the lesson of sacrifice and sacrifice for her brother, who was only two years old. She was still a child, but her parents expected her to play the role of an elder sister. Thirty years later, she now has her own family and her brother's as well. She still feels the same responsibility for her younger brother. She still keeps on advising him… whenever there is a problem in her brother's marital life she interferes, she keeps on telling the brother's wife what to feed the child, her upbringing How to do it. She is still engaged in sacrifice, but what is she getting?

 Pangs, heart aches, sleepless nights and often murmuring tears in his eyes due to his indifference and callousness towards him. Why? His brother is now old enough to make his own decisions. Even if some decisions have been proved wrong, the brother feels that he has the right to make these mistakes, he feels that he is learning a lot from these mistakes. The woman's sister-in-law considers her an unwanted intrusion into her household. Because she believes that in whatever way she wants to raise her child, she should get her full freedom and is irritated by someone else interfering only on the basis that she is older.

 Her father played an active role in speaking the first word by a son, writing the first letter and walking the first step. His father has always been a superman, a hero and an ideal man for that son. Even his father worked as a consultant for his career. The son later became a young entrepreneur, but it was also guided by his father. Today that son is an eminent industrialist. But even today, that father keeps waiting daily in the evening to ask and know what happened in the factory. This makes his son feel very suffocated and he feels that the father should give him some openness. The father is now going through a depression, because he is not getting as much attention as he used to get from his son. The father feels like he is no longer needed. This has started affecting his health and he is getting old fast.

 You should always remain a sister, but do not play the role of sister at all times. You will always find love as a parent, but you do not always remain a parent. After one round, no one will accept your 'I am more experienced than you' form.

 A three-year-old girl also wants her to be respected in a special way. And actually this is his need as well. The clothes she wants to wear at the age of three, if she is not allowed to wear those clothes, then it means that she is not being respected. The ten-year-old son wants to read the menu card and place the order himself. He considers it to be his own honor. A teenage girl wants to make friends with her choice and having her own values ​​means that parents should welcome her choice. Since a person has been working with you for many years, now he wants to make some decisions himself and those decisions are not to be changed or rejected by you. Every age and every stage of life carries with it a feeling for respect and you should respect that feeling.

 Even if we have good intentions, sometimes by guiding people - especially by doing so without asking for them - they feel that their honor is being hurt. The need for respect is greater than the need for guidance.

 Make others feel honored - this is your job. They ask you for guidance - this is their job.