After ‘yours’ and ‘my’ life become ‘our’ lives…

After ‘yours’ and ‘my’ life become ‘our’ lives…

 The above has made the male and female somewhat incomplete due to this purpose, so that they embrace and give fullness to this imperfection. However, the words husband and wife have been tied up in a narrower sense due to being cremated for centuries. Due to this the generality of this relationship has been reduced completely. Remove the words husband and wife from your vocabulary and resolve to become a partner. Then, men and women sometimes play the role of a mother, sometimes a father, sometimes a mischievous child, sometimes a wise counselor, sometimes a teacher, sometimes a mirror… and yes, sometimes a husband and wife. Expand the definition of this relationship, keep it open, free.

 In a matrimonial relationship, dignity is only when you are connected to your spouse with your entire personality, not just the body. Look at and understand each other's ways of thinking, discuss and discuss each other's personal values, attitudes and perceptions, be sensitive to each other's feelings, develop mutual emotional adaptability, and Never take time to sit in peace to develop spiritual harmony. Respect the wholeness of another and have a relationship with him, not just with his outward appearance - or only with his body.

 Do not try to tax what is worth doing in ten years, and what is to be done in one year, do not try to tax it in one month. Most newly married couples get so immersed in each other in the first few months, they do so much in excesses that nothing remains like doing it again in that relationship. After this they are only living in co-existence in a cold relationship. Whatever can become a tree, do not let it die as a plant. Walk slowly and walk far.

 In life, and even in a good relationship, the past is an irrelevant thing. The present building makes the rocks. The future is also important, as the two of you have to travel in the same way. By sitting in solitude and discussing small things of everyday, you can continuously increase mutual love. Talk about the future, talk about dreams, talk about ambitions, and pledge to adopt some way of playing each other's role for the sake of each other's growth that is purposeful, but intervention Not going to do This is the way to grow, grow and thrive in love.

 The belief prevails all over the world that marriage means two bodies one soul. That is, one life remains to live after marriage. The result is that in the name of marriage, women are forced to live like their husbands. She is left as an Anuchari and a disheveled, compassionate and sacrificial person who is feeling exploited. The truth is that even after you and my life have become 'our' lives, you and my life continue to exist. Marriage means 'our' life is the place where mine and your life come together. Being happy in a marriage depends on how the two are related in the 'our' place and how the place grows with the passage of time. Nevertheless, the life of a man and the life of a woman have their own existence. Actually, when that woman comes to her place and then comes back to 'our' place, then she is in her best form, and the same applies to the man. This will ensure that you respect each other's location, each other's personal interest and disinterest and priorities. And the biggest thing is that only this will ensure that you are not suffocating each other in the name of love.

 In its true sense, marriage should enhance the quality of life of both. Marriage can and should be a straight-flowing stream of life, expanding the possibilities for both.

 A good marriage should be nurtured and developed. Excellent marital life is an art, so be an artist.