A relationship that is most important to you…

A relationship that is most important to you…

 If you are happy at this time, it is not because everything is going well in your life, but because a relationship that is really important to you is going very well. And if you are unhappy at this point in life, not because everything is going wrong in your life, but because something is going wrong in a relationship that is truly important to you.

 Relations are like seeds, they have to be nurtured and developed. Expectations are like weeds. They thrive on their own. When you give a lot on your behalf to maintain a relationship, expectations can be kept under control. But when a relationship is left neglected and inadvertent and careless, these expectations shake the roots of that relationship. In the relationships that come to a standstill, the expectations that grow in them become our problems.

 For this, we can take the example of a savings account. A deposit in a savings account is a safe fund that we can withdraw whenever we want - but we can withdraw as much money from it as we have deposited in that fund. Similarly, we can get as much from a relationship as we have given to that relationship.

 In a relationship in which you have accumulated a sufficient amount of emotion, your mistakes are also tolerated and forgiveness. The meaning of your half-hearted thing is also understood there, and even if you have missed something, your intentions are appreciated. Overall the relationship is going well, because you are considered to be good and you are being considered good because you have accumulated a lot of goodwill in that regard.

 But there are some relations, about which we assume that they will be perfectly right, that there is nothing wrong with them, and that is why there is no need to nurture and develop these relationships. Expectations thrive, but necessary efforts are not made to maintain the relationship. As a result, the accumulated capital of goodwill is repaid, rather than the amount deposited, more is withdrawn. In such a situation, you will be blamed for every word you speak, your actions will be judged as right and wrong, events such as rhetoric and closing of doors will become common, neither Any of your work will be praised and neither will your clean intentions be respected. Such a relationship becomes like walking on a land of landmines, where explosions can happen anytime and how many times.

 The solution is very simple - submit, and submit, and keep depositing. We cannot live without taking anything from any lively relationship, but we can always accumulate it in plenty. Whatever you invest your time in, that thing grows. It is necessary to invest a lot of time and good time to nurture the relationship. Take time to listen and understand each other. Whenever possible, put your point in such a way that you can be understood. Show your love so that it can be felt. Keep the intention of giving, and also learn the way of taking. Taking is actually a way of showing respect to the giver and it is also like depositing a large amount. Continue to build a good relationship by continuously accumulating and in this way, fill happiness in your life.

 Mythology suggests that there have been problems with the relationship of the gods. You have got an opportunity to move up a notch from the gods.