Hey cutie, keep the softness of flowers in your nature but do not let it become your weakness as more delicate flowers are often crushed, always carry sharpness of thorns as you don't know at what step the need for acrimony may arise but never let it dominate you. Kept yourself with different qualities in the same way as you water the plants but never irrigate too high as too much quantity of everything is harmful, for both, the plants as well as humans...