Stop begging for Love.

Enough with the crying and constant begging for love from a person who clearly chooses not to give it. Quit begging for the attention. Quit begging for the admiration. Quit begging for the love and affection. Quit begging for the motivation. Quit begging for the validation. Quit begging for the praise, the hugs, the kisses, the walks, the smiles, the laughter, the sharing of past and present dreams, etc. All of that begging will lead you into depression, and keep you from realizing how truly amazing you already are (without the validation). It can also keep you from focusing on your goals and dreams for your life.

How do you beg you might ask? When your emotional or physical needs aren't being met, you get upset. You beg in front of that person who has sent you in depression because you are not attractive or wanted. You beg when you know that the person you love aren't loving you back and then you started crying silently. You beg when you act as if you are hurt or badly damaged every time you witness someone else getting the love and attention that you feel should be directed at you.

When you see your partner is happy and smiling with someone else and then you feel like we are not happy together when we spent alone time with each other. People have their mood swings and they got sad without any reason, then they want someone special people to come near them and ask them about their mood or the reasons why they are sad. I know… I've been there!

All of that behaviour is a form of begging in my opinion. I know this because I became a master at begging for love. I mastered in forgetting to love myself, don't give compliments to myself, I don’t know how to live my life, and forgetting that I was such a kind and polite human being.

Stop waiting for that person who should tell you the qualities that you already have, explore yourself again and search the qualities that you have. People loves you the way you are, not what people are making you. focus on your looks, attitude, politeness, calmness, behaviour, etc

If you are having any issues in your relationship, I suggest you to move on and make your life a healthy one. If a person is continuously denying your love then that person is not meant for you, so move one and search for the one who has made for you.

 Stop begging for love with your loved ones! Stay strong mentally and emotionally, try to learn again to love yourself and stop begging for love.

Counselling isn't a bad thing, and I highly recommend this if both parties are open to it; however, if your loved one doesn't want counselling, I have some sound words of advice: Don't ever give someone control over how you feel about yourself, nor allow anyone to keep you from loving yourself or moving forth with your dreams!

I've seen many people get depressed, purposely not take care of themselves, and allow their goals in life to remain stagnant as a way of making their mate feel guilty for their pain and loneliness. Not only is it a pathetic step for a mature individual to take (I know, I've been there), but it is also destructive to your goals and your life!

Get your life back and STOP playing the victim role! Show love to the other person, but don't drain yourself to the point where you have no love left for yourself.

DREAM, even if you can't share it. LAUGH, even if your loved ones are not with you. GROW, even if you don’t have any support. DANCE, even you are all alone. LOVE, even if you are not getting back from someone. From this time keep your tears aside, dent ever beg for something, try to love yourself, stay strong and positive.